Timeless truths and media ignorance

April 19, 2015

Twice in the last 19 months, friends and acquaintances have asked me to make presentations about the media at Cuyahoga Community College. The first presentation, in Fall 2013, regarded media coverage about the humanitarian crisis in Syria.  Back then, almost no one in the United States had heard of ISIS.

Why not?

Many of our main media outlets are more concerned about profits and ratings than providing in-depth news and analysis about matters of national and global concern. So, as Syria’s civil war goes on and ISIS becomes a major threat to peace, Americans are pretty ignorant about it.

One of these days I will post all four of my “Timeless Truths” about the mass media in a blog. Suffice to say, students in my JMC 1011 Intro to Mass Communication classes learn these truths and gain a much greater appreciation that way of how the media functions. But Timeless Truth Number 1 is simple enough for everyone to get: IT’S ALL ABOUT THE BENJAMINS.

But I digress.

About 10 days ago, I was privileged to be a speaker for “Culture Shock” a terrific annual program presented at Cuyahoga Community College’s West Campus. The event is part of the college’s very important Diversity Series. This particular time, I was fortunate to have a co-presenter with me, Shamina Merchant, who’s a senior at Brecksville Broadview-Heights High School.

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Shamina Merchant with me at Culture Shock 2015

Shamina spoke on the Muslim faith, and gave an excellent summary of some tenets of it.

My role was to present information on our mainstream media, and how it mis-characterizes Muslims and the Middle East in general.  (Confession: due to my recent eye surgery, I didn’t research this talk as much as I had for the Syria talk in Fall 2013.).

It is gratifying to make these presentations, and I’m glad that students and adults believe the talks and explanations shed a lot of light on why the U.S. media does such a poor job covering Muslims, the Middle East, etc.

Below I’ve uploaded and created links to my 2015 presentation, to Shamina’s presentation, and to my 2013 presentation about Syria. Feel free to download and take a look. I’m grateful to my long-time friend Pierre Bejjani and the non-profit, non-partisan organization CAMEO, to Shamina Merchant and her family, to  Isam Zaiem and the Northeast Ohio Chapter of the Council on American Islamic Relations, and of course to my friend and colleague Dr. Susan Lohwater at Cuyahoga Community College for encouraging me to make these presentations.

Our beliefs are not the same, but we all share a dislike for those who hate and we have a longing to replace ignorance with information and understanding. That’s needed more than ever in 2015.

If you wish to speak further with me about this topic, don’t hesitate to email me at john.kerezy@tri-c.edu

SOME OTHER LINKS ON THIS SUBJECT:

http://www.cameocleveland.org/  

http://www.cairohio.com/ohio-chapters/cleveland-a-northern-ohio.html

http://www.tri-c.edu/administrative-departments/human-resources/documents/diversity-and-inclusion-speaker-series-calendar.pdf

My 2013 presentation on Syria            syria

Shamina’s presentation on April 9        Misunderstandings

My presentation on April 9                    misunderstand muslims

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Young People and the Grieving Process

April 9, 2015

John’s note — Julia Romito submitted this story to her JMC 26001 Multimedia Newswriting class in the Fall 2014 semester.  I am posting it here on my blog with her permission.

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Julia Romito

Hormones, relationships, and homework cause high school to be a difficult time of every teenager’s life, but imagine how unbearable it becomes when a high school student also has to cope with the death of a close friend.

Suicide, cancer and car accidents are all in the top five causes of death in young people.  Different people deal with death in different ways, but everyone goes through the grieving process.

Laura Serazin, a grief counselor at the Cornerstone of Hope in Cleveland, OH, stated that the grieving process is divided into five stages: denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.

“Grief is the hardest work anyone will ever do,” said Serazin.

Serazin explained that, in her experience, her patients deny that the deceased is gone, become angry that he or she was taken from them, grow depressed and then eventually learn to live with the fact that the departed is gone forever.

“In reality, everyone’s grief is unique and everyone slips back and forth between the stages,” said Serazin.

Serazin also stated that adults and teens grieve differently, and she later added that teens grieve in doses. She said: “Their ability to tolerate intense emotion is more limited, so they need to shut down their emotions.  You may see them very upset one minute, and then, laughing or playing a little while later.”

Anthony Gill, 17, committed suicide on January 13, 2014. According to Suicide Awareness Voices of Education, suicide is the second leading cause of death in young people 15 to 24 years old, and results in approximately 4,600 deaths each year.

AnnaMarie Romito was friends with Gill since they were babies, and he was like a brother to her. Romito was dazed and wretched when she heard the news of his death.

“I immediately fell to the ground and couldn’t breathe, and I was screaming [and] crying,” said Romito.

Romito added that the most difficult part about losing Gill was not being able to talk to him anymore because he always helped her with her problems.

“Sometimes I feel like it still hasn’t hit me that he’s actually gone, and I still don’t want to accept the fact that he’s not here,” said Romito, indicating that she is still in denial regarding Gill’s death.

Cora Flemming, 18, died of osteosarcoma, which is a type of bone cancer, on May 5, 2013. Each year, approximately 800 new cases of osteosarcoma are diagnosed in the United States, and half of those cases are in children and teens.

Alex Cameron was friends with Flemming before and throughout her nine-month battle with the deadly disease, and he recalled that it was very emotional.

“I called [my friend] Haley and she told me that she [Cora] had died, and I just instantly started crying and hung up on her right away,” said Cameron.

Cameron later added that Flemming was positive about her cancer, and she did not feel she was going to die, which made losing her harder.

“I truly believed it was going to be fine because she believed that it was going to be fine,” said Cameron.

Cameron also mentioned that he has accepted Flemming’s death over the past year and a half. He said, “I just think that death is a really hard thing to accept, and it just takes time.”

Jeff Chaya, 18, was killed in a car accident along with three other teens on June 3, 2012. According to the Department of Motor Vehicles, there are over 6,400 people 15 to 20 years old that are killed in car accidents every year.

Sobhit Haribhakti was friends with Chaya throughout all four years of high school, and he was in utter disbelief and devastation when he heard the news of Chaya’s death.

“I ran downstairs and started crying and yelling and screaming. It was one of the worst moments of my life,” recalled Haribhakti, with tears in his eyes.

Haribhakti also added that the hardest part about Chaya’s death was the untimeliness. He said, “I don’t think anyone should have to lose someone so close to them so early in their lives…He’s in a better place.”

Over the past two years, Haribhakti has come to accept Chaya’s death, but it was not an easy process. Haribhakti suffered through depression his first year of college, but he eventually overcame the sadness with the help of his friends and family.

“I can still hear his voice in my head, [and] all the memories are still living in my mind,” said Haribhakti.

ADDITIONAL RESOURCES ON THIS TOPIC

http://www.cornerstoneofhope.org/

https://juliamarieromito.wordpress.com/